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Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Tuesday Training Tips, Topics, and Other Random Stuff....Weight Training, Disappointment, and a Pimped Out Turtles Blog!

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Training Tip: 
"If you plan to work weights (or resistance machines) on the same day you run, work weights first.  Cardio training fatigues muscles, leaving them too tired for anything afterward."   *Do you train with weights/machines? 


Training Topic:  Dealing with Disappointment and... Moving On!
This past weekend, as you probably know by now, I had to make the tough decision to not run the Disney Princess Half March 7th.  It was a decision I had been grappling with ever since my doctor said, "You think you're going to run a half marathon in ten days?  I'm not thinking so." She was stern, but she's also a runner, so she 'gets it."  This did not make me feel any better, mind you.  But after watching the Olympics the past two weeks and being totally inspired by all the athletes and their personal stories (I love the stories behind the games), I had already begun to think about disappointment that comes with injury and illness. If you watched, you know there were many injuries at the winter games, and even tragically, death. These are things often simply beyond our control. The question, however, is (I believe):  What happens when you suffer that injury or become victim to that illness?  How do you handle it? Do you insist on pushing through, or back off and chalk it up to another experience and get on with life. We each have to make that decision, regardless of outside forces, pressures, or expectations. We have to find that place deep inside that houses that little voice of reason and reality.  Sometimes, we just have to walk away and deal with the disappointment. I'm somewhere in this process, probably further along than my Sunday evening post sounded, but I just needed to publicly put it out there: I can't run my first half marathon as planned. And move on.

Ironically, an article landed in my in-box at work Monday morning that had absolutely nothing to do with running, but everything to do with making sacrifices. The very first sentence said, "Professional success often requires some degree of sacrifice."  Well, that just helped affirm my race decision related to work. Interesting. 

The other affirmation that made me know it was the right decision came in the form of all your comments that began pouring in (literally) 3 minutes after I posted Sunday night, and continued throughout the day.  First, thank you from the bottom of my



You have no idea how many times I teared up at work all day, reading messages on my BlackBerry.  You shared your hugs, your bloggy love, and even alluded to your own stories, either in the past or an upcoming decision looming heavily for you.  Thank you... and I'd love to hear your stories, because if I could gain strength from your brief  comment (which I did!), I'm absolutely certain someone else will too, from your own personal stories ~ someone who's either dealing with the same disappointment (I happen to know of two other ladies who won't be running the DPH due to injuries) or is grappling with making that tough decision. When were you disappointed in your runnning life and what did you do to move past it?   


And to end on a much lighter note.....


Random Stuff:
I'm so excited to share that the first segment in my new series, Lessons from my Laces, was posted last week on Florida Running & Triathlon's online eNewsletter, found at flrunning.com. I know many (most?) of you read blog posts in your reader, so you may not have seen the updated layout/design and addition of the weekly survey and link to the "Lessons" series on the Turtles blog.  If you get a chance, stop by and check them all out. While home sick last week, it was hard to stay away from my laptop, which gave me time to 'pimp my blog.'  Okay, I didn't really 'pimp it,' but that was fun to say!  :-)  And the "Lessons" series, in true 'Zen Runner' fashion (I was called that recently! Ha Ha), poses a question at the end.  Would love to hear your thoughts...... as I busily work on the second installment, coming out sometime next week.

By the way, someone who was kind enough to check out "Lessons" last week, asked me if it would be a regular series.  For the life of me, I can't find that darn e-mail or comment.  The answer is yes, I will be contributing regularly to the FL Running & Triathlon eNewsletter (as long as they'll have me!).  Thank you for asking and your kind words.  :-) 


So take your pick today.  What spoke to you the most?  It's always interesting to me to see what people comment on when Tuesday rolls around.  Will it be......
Question #1:   Do you train with weights/machines?
Question #2:   Have you experienced disappointment in running and how did you move past it?
Question #3:   The question posed over at flrunning.com re: The Things We Do

Or a combination?  Your pick. Looking forward to hearing from you! And check back tomorrow, as we meet another Wednesday Winner, Saundra @ Fitness for Foodies.

Happy running, friends.....

HUGS from the Turtle Runner!



Robin

10 Comments:

ajh said...

I love the stories behind the Olympics too! I was disappointed when I was not able to run some smaller races one fall and had to give up running to recuperate. I definitely lost some fitness but did get it back. I recovered and went on to run many other races. Recently that injury has resurfaced but I seem to be getting rid of it sooner on my own......knock on wood. It' all a balancing act I guess.

saundra said...

Weights: I currently train with free weights

Diasppointments: I suffered a stress fracture the week before my first half marathon.

Lori said...

I am a lifter - I love lifting and I lift heavy. Free weights or cables pretty much. Lifting has made my running and biking endurance happen. And I do cardio after lifting, cause the lifting wears me out!


I'm glad your feeling at least a little more philosophical about the missed 1/2.

April said...

Great post today!
I suffered a disappointment in my last Half when my body failed me and I finished in 2:01(my goal was sub 2hr.) Once I got over the initial disappointment I found myself fighting harder than ever and training smarter so that the next Half I run in April will be a no problem sub 2hr. I think "pushing through" and "chalking it up to another experience" go hand in hand. I pushed through harder than ever and used the experience to learn. I learned to listen to my body. I also learned that I am strong and capable of great things!
congratulations on your series "Lessons from Laces"!

Lisa said...

I train with both weights and machines but I like the free weights best.

As you know I recently had a disappointment when I broke and sprained my ankle. While I didn't have a specific race in mind I was to begin training for a half, possibly in March (was just going to see how my training went). Well all that plus all my work up to that point went out the window the day I broke my ankle.

I was pretty frustrated and disappointed at the thought of not being able to run and having to start over. Plus not knowing WHEN I would be able to run again was hard.

I took the attitude that it is what it is. There wasn't a damn thing I could do to change my situation so I did what I could and started working with weights at home. I could still do ab work and work my upper body and that is exactly what I did.

Well almost three months to the day of my injury I am running again.

It's all about perspective. It wasn't the end of my "running career", just a little hiatus.

I still have my legs and the ability to run and when I see people who don't have that ability, well, I count my lucky stars.

Ann said...

I was supposed to run my first half (NC OBX half) in Nov of 2009. In August of 2009 I suffered an ankle injury that put me in a boot and out of running completely for 6 weeks. There was no way I was going to have time to regain my endurance to run the OBX half. I had been training for months. I was incredibly frustrated that my body was failing me.

Once I got over the disappointment I got my training back on track and realized I had to make peace with my body. I had to do what my body could do and respect that, if I want to continue to run for years to come. Not to say that I don't push and try to get faster or run longer, I do. I just know my limits and that I will not be a person that can run 5+ days a week and that's Okay.

When I ran my first half this past Saturday, I couldn't get the smile off my face the whole time I was running. I bet some of the other runners thought I was pretty goofy. I was just so happy that I was accomplishing a goal that was a year in the making. I think that suffering the disappointment helped me appreciate my accomplishment even more.

"The achievement of your goal is assured the moment you commit yourself to it." -Mack R. Douglas

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Melissa said...

I am so glad you are feeling a little better about the whole thing. :)

onelittletrigirl said...

I asked the SAME question on my blog today!!!

I am currently experiencing dissapointment. I am almost sure I will be giving up my Va Beach 1/2 marathon. I am very sad. I am trying to stay positive, and right now while I don't have an answer it isn't as hard. BUT, I know that if I get bad news (and I am almost certain I will) I will be a mess. And I am trying so hard to prepare myself. Many people are sharing their horror stories with me about their own hips and I am doing research and none of THAT is helping (no kidding, right?!?!) but I am trying so hard to fill myself with positive thoughts.

Sorry this is so all over the place. Last year I had to give up a marathon and now this, so I really do understand the dissapointment. All I can say is this...there will be other races and you have to take care of YOU first!

Jenna Z said...

I try to work in strength training at least once a week, usually try for twice. I take an awesome class at my gym called Team Strength Extreme, mainly we work with free weights and medicine balls as a group. At home I work with free weights (my husband just got me new 10 pounders for valentine's day!) and resistance bands. I love my Wii Active game, which uses a band!

Megan said...

I strength train a few time a wk. But mostly only upper body. I run in the AM but can't get to lifting until midday. BY then my legs are too tired.