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Thursday, July 15, 2010

Four Men and a .... Conversation

Community. 

What does the word mean to you? 

I've always been an advocate of community-building, whether it was  my  own classrooms over the years (hormone-driven, narcissistic preteens were the toughest audience!), a workshop setting, or  a  team/department  that  I was working with.

Merriam-Webster, my favorite online go-to source for definitions, defines community as "a unified body of individuals, society at large, or joint ownership or participation." 

In the past year, I've had the pleasure of learning about the blogging community, and what an awesome experience it's been!  In recent weeks, community has taken on a whole new meaning as I've settled into my running group.  Wow!  

Who knew it would be so much fun running with others???  

And just as Hubs predicted, I've found myself wondering: 

Why did I wait so long to run with others??   

He knows me well! 

I find myself thinking frequently about this newly-learned lesson  about running, so  when  I see others running in a group, I'm no longer puzzled and perhaps a bit envious, but instead, knowing!  I get it!  I get why they run together ... !  

Talking about ....... the day, the week, last night's TV show, tomorrow night's date, the kids' soccer game, training struggles, training triumphs, family woes, vacation stories, memories,  learning that you  lived in the same place many years ago (small world!), favorite running shoes, favorite fuel, shoot - favorite (and not-so-favorite)  anything running-related(!), races run, races planned, running fears ......  

And the list goes on .....  

So when I pulled up to the redlight on my way home the other day and saw the group of runners .... four men and a conversation .... I knew.   I instantly related.  I knew what they were probably talking about.  And I watched as they comfortably jaunted along, crossing the street, winding around traffic, chatting and laughing.  Community.  I get it now.  A unified body of individuals... all running for the good of the group.  Each supporting  the other.  Each bringing himself  to  the group.  To  the Community.  If  only  all  runners could be so fortunate .... (you can!)

Many of you have left comments on  my  posts about the new training group and about wanting to try out group running or try specifically Galloway training, but you're uncertain.  I say:  YES!  Go for it.  I was there.  I understand the Fear and Anxiety of running with others.  But now I understand  the sense of  Community even better!  Finding your pace group makes all  the  difference.   

Haven't tried running with anyone yet?

Find a few peeps you'd like to run with ....

Invite them out for a run (and breakfast?).

Are you local and run slowly?
Me, too!  

Send me an e-mail.
Let's plan a group run and breakfast.  

*I'll bring the donuts!
(Inside joke for my FB buddies!)

You in?  

 Find a group.  Be part of the conversation.

Build a community.


Happy (group) running, friends....




Robin
Own your journey.  One run at a time.

11 comments:

Anne said...

Great post! Sharing an activity with like-minded people...win-win :)

misszippy said...

Some of my best friends are part of my running posse. Met them through our running club and now we train together 2-3 times/week. Wouldn't miss it for the world! Glad you found yours!

Leelee said...

I need a running group...my small group people keep moving away or getting hurt...you are so lucky...it's hard to stay motivated sometimes by yourself!!

Jill said...

I like the community of blog land folks :). I have met some of the best people through this blog world and am sooo grateful for that! I'm so glad your new running group is working out so well for you - yay!!

busyrunningmama said...

You know I am in for a group run - just let me know!
Great post!
As for community, check out my Foodie Friday post tomorrow for a different spin on Community:0)

ajh said...

If I was local I'd be there running, chatting and eating donuts with you!

MomRunningFromCancer said...

It makes me want to go find a running group. But since I run at 5:30 in the morning - and always run from my house - I think that will be kind of hard. I do look at it as my alone time.

Robin said...

MomRunning... You might be surprised who's willing to run at that hour... we've got over 300 people on the road before 5:00 am three days/week in our groups.

Leelee, I agree! Let me know if you want to run next week when you're in Orlando. :)

BusyRunning... You know our run is coming up! Time to put those legs back on the road, right?

Thanks, guys! HUGS to each of you!

Irene said...

The best thing I ever did was join a running group, and now I have a bunch of wonderful friends that I could never imagine being without! Ditto with running bloggers. I've met many!

Shelley said...

I love having a running buddy, and someday it would be great to have a group...so glad that you like running with people now!

Megan said...

I finally convinced my hubs to run a 5k with me & my friends. He was worried about slowing me down. Its not like I'm fast. But he had tons of fun.